How To Have An Orgasm!

This is a website for every woman who has never had an orgasm in her life, every woman who wants to have an orgasm (or wants to know how to achieve orgasm more easily!), and every woman who currently has trouble reaching orgasm.

Oh, and yes....it's also essential reading for women who want to have an orgasm during sex (in case you're wondering, yes, I do mean during intercourse). So, without further ado, let me introduce myself.

My name's Jan Rossey, and I've built this site, which is devoted to the female orgasm - or more accurately, to showing women how they can enjoy orgasms easily during self-pleasure or sex play with a partner, and even during lovemaking.

We all know about the elusive nature of the female orgasm! I think it's fair to say that most women sometimes find it difficult to have an orgasm, while for some women I've met, orgasm remains an unknown experience.

And many woman tell me in the course of my work (I'm a counselor for women's sexual issues) how much they would love to enjoy orgasm during intercourse with their partner, but for some reason, it just never works out that way.

Unfortunately, no matter how loving your partner may be, he probably doesn't really understand the challenge that we women sometimes face in reaching orgasm.

Because, when you think about it, most men have no difficulty at all reaching climax when they want to have an orgasm - in fact, the problem is that many men come far too quickly!

So, if he knows you haven't reached orgasm yet, or he wants you to enjoy an orgasm during intercourse, he may be impatient for that to happen, and even when he's expressing support, you can bet that secretly he's just as frustrated as you are.

Of course, it can be just as challenging when you're looking for an intimate relationship and you aren't orgasmic (yet!),  because you're probably wondering how sex will work out with a male partner when he discovers you "can't have orgasms." (Hint: Give him great orgasms and he won't mind too much! This gives you plenty of time to discover how to have really great orgasms yourself.)

Then again, if you enjoy sex play that sometimes gives you an orgasm, and sometimes doesn't, and you don't really know why, you're probably a bit confused about what's going on with your body.

And if you think that's confusing, what about orgasm during intercourse? This can seem like an impossible challenge, so despite all your efforts to find out how to have an orgasm during intercourse, you may have given up on the idea. As for simultaneous orgasm during your lovemaking, well.....dream the impossible dream!

However, the exciting thing is that all these challenges can easily be resolved. This means you can have an orgasm easily during self-pleasuring, sex play with your partner, AND during your lovemaking!

One of the problems you may face, of course, if you want to reach orgasm during intercourse, is that your lover probably doesn't last long enough. In fact, over half of all men reach orgasm within two minutes of intercourse starting, and three quarters come within three minutes.

But what if he could keep going just a little longer - or even for a lot longer? Would you have an orgasm during sex? Well, right now, who knows, but it's a fact that many women discover their ability to be orgasmic during longer lasting sex (especially when it's intimate, connected and loving).

How frustrating! What should we girls do - try and find a way to deal with our men's tendency to come quickly, or try and find a way of reaching orgasm quicker and easier? Or both?

I believe the best answer - and the right answer as far as our sexual pleasure is concerned - is that we should first discover how to reach climax more easily, and then take the time to look at how we can extend sexual pleasure with our partners. But first, we can - we must - discover how to be orgasmic every time - or almost every time - we have sex or enjoy a session of self-pleasuring masturbation.

You see, whatever your challenge around reaching orgasm, there is an answer. There is a way to become more easily orgasmic.

That's why I wrote this website - to offer a comprehensive, clear, step-by-step guide showing how YOU CAN be fully orgasmic: it's a do-it-yourself program that includes full and detailed instructions on how YOU CAN experience your full orgasmic capacity - and that's true even if you've never had an orgasm before in your life!

So, if you want to have an orgasm for the first time, or if you want to enjoy more orgasms, or reach orgasm more easily, or if you want to experience orgasms during sexual intercourse, I can show you how to do it! After all, let's face it - sexual pleasure, with plenty of orgasms, is every woman's birthright....and it's very good for you!

I can tell you that this program explains every aspect of your sexuality and why you might be a bit blocked on experiencing your natural sexual pleasure right now. But please be assured, my comprehensive step-by-step guide to reaching orgasm will take you to total orgasmic pleasure and complete sexual satisfaction in only a few weeks - just like it has for hundreds of other women.

There's a lot of amazing information in my guide, starting with answers to all the questions we so often ask about sex, including:

• How come so many women have trouble getting to orgasm when they masturbate?
• Why don't women reach orgasm during intercourse?
• Some women don't know how to have an orgasm - but why?
• What's the reason so many women have difficulty accepting their bodies, their genitals or their sexuality just the way they are?
• How can you become totally at ease with every aspect of your body, no matter what it looks like?
• How do you overcome shame, embarrassment and guilt about sex, masturbation and your sexuality?
• What should you do if you have an emotional legacy from childhood or adult sexual abuse that stops you enjoying sex to the full?
• How often do couples have sex, and how often do women reach orgasm? Just what is everybody else doing in bed?

And I provide you with a comprehensive guide to great sex which shows you, step by step:

• Dozens of ways to have an orgasm during solo masturbation whenever you want.
• How to overcome the legacy of the past so that you can experience wonderful, joyous orgasms right here, right now - how, in short, you can become fully orgasmic.
• The best techniques for masturbation, both on your own and to share with your partner: techniques guaranteed to bring you both to orgasm.
• How to establish deep intimacy and experience profound sensual pleasure during sex.
• How to get really close to your lover, both physically and emotionally, so you enjoy true emotional and sexual fulfillment.

And you also get all of the following.....

• Dozens of the most erotic and exciting techniques for sensual massage, masturbation and sex with your partner.
• Hundreds of tips on how you can really pleasure your partner and earn his everlasting gratitude in bed!
• The secrets of successful sex - all you need to boost passion in your relationship so you feel your sexual arousal and desire like never before, the kind of desire that's only quenched by intense, even mind-blowing, orgasms! (Warning - this level of pleasure can become highly addictive.)
• A complete guide to oral pleasure - how to do it, how to enjoy it - with beautiful pictures to show you the secrets of successful oral sex for you and your partner!
• A wonderful guide to sex positions, featuring specially commissioned and very tasteful photos of loving, committed couples enjoying sex in many different positions, with full commentary and explanation so you can really get a feel for the pleasure of lovemaking. This is an erotic, arousing and informative gallery of images - and it's unique on the internet because it depicts real lovemaking, not just a man and woman "having sex".
• A complete guide to anal sex - while not everyone wants to try this form of sexual pleasure, it's something that more couples have tried than you might imagine - and if you fancy a little taste of something different, I have included complete instructions and a full guide on how best to try it.

This complete guide to becoming orgasmic and enjoying a fantastic sex life is available for the small investment of only $39.95 - a ludicrously small price to pay for an orgasmically magical sex life! For this, you get access to the website for a whole year, with complete access to any and all the updates added during your year's membership. If you'd like to take advantage of this offer, please sign up now - and enjoy better sex tomorrow, with the prospect of unlimited orgasms to come!

Billing is entrusted to CCBill.com, the oldest, most reliable and most trusted credit card processors on the internet, so I never see your credit card or other details.

All your personal information remains on file in the high security processing system of CCBill.com. Nor do I ever distribute your personal information and email address in any way whatsoever. In fact I will never send you any emails unless you email me first!

But, having said that, I want you to be happy with the information you receive, so if you have any questions or comments, you can always contact me, Jan, personally on the following email address: janine"at"howtobeorgasmic.com (please replace "at" with @ before sending the email).

So there you are: for a mere $39.95 you can discover the secrets of the female orgasm. You can discover the pleasure your body is capable of giving you - and you can enjoy a truly orgasmic sex life.

If you're ready to discover the power of your sexuality and the almost unlimited pleasure of the female orgasm, please join using the form below: you'll be taken to the members' area immediately!

All material is copyright. We will take legal action against anyone who copies our text.© Jan Rossey 2011: How To Be Orgasmic