What Turns Women On!

Some Research Into What Attracts Women Sexually In Men

This material is the product of research into 200 women, who responded to a questionnaire about what they find sexually arousing....The main groups of responses were (click on the link to go to that section):

[ Physical Contact - This Page ] Physical Appearance 1 ] Mental Stimulation which turns women on sexually ] Body Image and Sexual Attractiveness ] Sexual advances, making love, exciting your partner ] How To Capture His Heart and Make him Love You Forever ] Fetishism that turns women on sexually ] Body Image and Sexual Attractiveness Delayed Ejaculation Penis Size As A Turn On For Women


Manifestation - Manifesting A Relationship

Make no mistake about it, the secret of a successful relationship is the same as the secret of every other success in life using the Universal Laws of Attraction to manifest what you want.

You see, one of the amazing things about being human is that we have been given the capacity and the power by the universe to obtain whatever we want through using the power of our minds in a process called manifestation.

Manifestation is actually not very mysterious at all although it's often made to seem so by people who write about it!

You see, every thought and every material thing in the world started in the same form energy.

Therefore it follows that by using the energy of your mind to control the way in which certain objects manifest in the world, or the way in which circumstances and coincidences happen in the world, you can control the way in which things happen around you.

This is tantamount to creating the world that you live in, tantamount to actually being responsible for exactly what happens to you, and tantamount to entirely being able to control your expectations and your reality.

You can do this by sitting quietly for a few minutes twice a day, focusing your mind on whatever it is that you wish to create in your world.

You have no doubt heard of how people can use manifestation to create material wealth, but you can also use it equally easily to create the job at the you want, or to get the relationship that you desire.

The key to manifestation is to actually focus on whatever it is that you want, and to ensure that your energy level is sufficiently high to propel your thoughts with force out into the universe, so that the universe is given not enough opportunity to manifest whatever it is that you want in the way that you want it.

So for example when you're manifesting a relationship, using the Law of Attraction which simply means the universal law by which you can influence the course of events around you you will need to focus on what it is that you want and then energize that with the delight and joy that you would feel if you were already in a relationship.

One of the things that confuses people about this is the fact that they believe that it is necessary only to do this once or twice, and that simply isn't true. If you try to manifest something as complex as a relationship, then you need to give the universe every opportunity to create ways in which the person you desire can come into your life.

It follows that the more energy you put out there towards that objective, and the more often you do it, the more likelihood there is of the universe producing what you want.

In addition, people often don't understand that it's unhelpful to specify in every single detail the characteristics of the person that you want. They try to tell the universe who to produce for them!

You see the thing is this: the more specific you are, the less chance the universe has of producing exactly what you want.

It's true that there might be somebody who conforms to your requirements somewhere in the world, but the probability of circumstances being set up so that you can meet them is actually much lower.

If you try and achieve something more general, like "a soulmate", or a partner who is going to make you happy, then what you can be sure of is that you're actually going to give the universe every opportunity to manifest the relationship you so desire.

Now this is something that is actually going to be very easy for you to do without guidance and help, so I'd like to direct you to a website which can help you it's a website solely concerned with the the process of manifestation of reality, although if you're interested in the Law of Attraction manifestation, you can actually see another website here all about manifesting reality.

 Physical Contact As An Essential Element of Every Successful Relationship

The body of every man and woman is well supplied with erogenous zones which, if properly caressed, bring full sexual arousal. Women's chief erogenous zones are, in order of greatest sensitivity, the clitoris, the labia, and the vagina entrance.

Next come the nipples, but though the majority of women respond readily to stimulation of them by finger and thumb and the mouth (sucking or licking), there are far more women than is realized who find such attentions to the nipples off-putting by being irritating and sometimes downright painful. The equivalent areas on men's bodies are the penis, testicles, nipples and scrotum. But some men cannot get aroused sexually, even when they receive adequate stimulation - a condition known as delayed ejaculation.

The other sensitive zones for both sexes are the insides and, to a less extent, the outsides of the upper thighs, the perineum, behind the knees, the lips and the inside of the mouth, the throat, the nape of the neck, behind the ears, the lobes, the length of the spine, the buttocks, the anus, and the navel.

There are not many parts of the surface of the body, then, that are not sexually responsive to caresses of one kind or another, principally with the fingers, lips, and tongue.

This being so, responses to physiological stimuli, at least via some of the sensitive zones, makes physiological response universal. And of course some arousal is entirely or principally psychological: this is particularly true of the woman's caresses of the partner, which although physiological for him, have psychologically arousing properties for her.

Well, what does turn a woman on and make her come?

A good communication system between husband and wife brings far more satisfaction than anything else except good sex! But there are specific cases - for example - if she is anorgasmic, training the muscles of her pelvic floor will go a long way towards ending anorgasmia.

Coital Alignment Techniques

False targets that (may) spoil sex - and popular ways to make a woman come!

One false belief is that successful sex involves mutual orgasm. But as we know, a woman may have one or several orgasms before her husband ejaculates his semen.

Another is that a woman will always come during intercourse by thrusting alone. In the absence of orgasm during intercourse, people have ended until quite recently to blame the man, saying that he did not know how to make love or else was a selfish character who did not care whether his wife was satisfied or not.

Truth is - for mutual assured pleasure, a woman needs to come before her man enters her. Many women (nearly 1 in 4 in our survey) invariably come from manual stimulation of the clitoris, and about half always come from cunnilingus. Many woman have one special caress which makes them randy, and can sometimes make them come without direct stimulation of the genitals. Here are examples:

"Pushing his prick up my anus." Please be careful if you do this, and watch out for the transfer of yeast cells from the vagina to the anus. This can cause yeast infections of the vagina, or Bacterial Vaginosis. Bad news both!

"Running his fingers all over the lips of my vagina and inside and out and on and on forever, and I get sexually aroused so very slowly and yet realizing that I can go on rising until eternity, and anticipating, and finally he would plunge in a finger, two fingers hard and go on from there, and/or a special thrill, a sudden twist of the hand so that the wrist bone grates suddenly, harshly against the soft sensitive insides of the tops of my thighs, and I come in a massive climax, with my natural sexual lubrication spurting out of me!"

"I love him to run his hands over and under my ass while we're screwing at the same time that we're kissing."

"Standing when you are held so close and tight you can feel your man's cock and balls fitting so comfortably between your legs."

"I love to have my tits played with. I get really turned on when a man sucks on them. I get turned on by this more than by anything else. When a man plays with my clitoris with his fingers, it feels really good, but I don't come."

"My lover caresses and touches every inch of my body, but when he brushes my vagina with his penis, it is the most glorious moment of all his caresses. He knows how much I enjoy this moment and prolongs entrance as long as I can stand it."

"The touch of his penis at my cunt entrance makes me leap forward towards coming with a big jump."

"Having my breasts and nipples caressed arouses me very much and can soon bring me off. I especially, like to have a man take one of my nipples into his mouth. I could and have spent much time having a man do that to me. Second to that is cunnilingus which arouses me about as much."

"Having the area of my clitoris and vagina caressed makes me respond more than anything else. One way of doing that, which is difficult for a man to do, but which I get most pleasure from, is having that area caressed with the top of his penis. If he cannot do that, doing it with his tongue is just about as good."

"Sixty-nine - mutual oral sex - arouses us both on more than anything else. Standing in the shower with the water and soap falling off us is great and also good clean fun."

Although most women respond much more keenly than men to gentle stroking and almost require this type of preliminary play to become fully aroused, men also welcome this type of caress.

Remember the general principle that stroking with the whole hand generally proves exciting to both parties, while fingertip stroking usually excites the passive partner more than the active one. But avoid any body areas which may have physical conditions or problems such as gout - check out this diet for gout which is reputed to help enormously with such problems!

An example of what makes a woman come!

Krystyna is thirty-four, a Swede married to an Englishman, and lives in Sussex, England. She emails to say:

"We have a heated swimming pool, where we can swim naked all the year round. We often make love while we are swimming. It's quite surprising the number of different things you can do.

Two positions that we use, each of which I find especially exciting and which give me fantastic orgasms. In one I lie on my tummy holding on to the steps, which are at the shallow end. When he kneels down in the water Max's penis is exactly level with my vagina.

So he kneels between my legs and pushes into me, and then puts his hand round and parts my labia. He doesn't touch my clitoris at all. Then we rock backwards and forwards, and the movement of the water over my clitoris is indescribable. It takes a long time for me to come off like this, because the build-up is slow.

As you know, a man who has control of his ejaculation and knows the art of lasting in bed is a man who most women would prefer as a lover - at least over a man who has no control and ejaculates prematurely before the woman is satisfied during sex.

Building up to orgasm may take more than a quarter of an hour, but all the time there are these superb sensations which slowly get more and more intense, until there is a huge burst, which makes me tremble like a leaf from fingertips to toes.

Max always holds out until I begin to tremble, then he brings himself to orgasm and the jerking of his penis inside me makes me tremble even more, and the more I tremble, the more intense my sensations are. I have blacked out coming off like this, which I have never done when we make love in bed or anywhere else. Another way we do it is to go into deeper water, so that Max's feet are firmly touching the bottom and his shoulders are above the water.

Then I climb on to his penis and put my legs round his waist, and cross my feet. When Max bends his knees and straightens them, his penis goes in and out of my vagina and as it does so, it makes the water flow under a kind of pressure between my sex-lips and over my clitoris, and this is fantastic, too.

But most fantastic of all is when we do it at the water inlet. This is in the shallow end, and the water flows in very, very strongly. I face the inlet and hang, on to the sides, then with my knees apart I squat down until my vulva is exactly opposite the end about six or seven inches away. Max kneels behind me and comes into me.

The underwater jet forces my labia open and plays directly on my clitoris. It also hits the base of Max's penis which doesn't come in me, and joggles his balls about, which he finds very exciting. I always have seven or eight orgasms, and Max never fewer than two. His second one always takes longer than the first, which is why I have so many more orgasms than Max.

But once when Max was particularly randy he had three in about three minutes, and then had two more slower ones. I lost count of mine that time. We had to go and lie on the bed afterwards, we were completely exhausted. But it was a fantastic experience.

Sometimes Allan and Richard come and swim with us, and they like helping us and watching us. Allan and Richard are bisexual, like Max.

Sometimes I let them make love to me if they haven't brought their girlfriends with them, which quite often they don't. Sometimes Allan and Richard make love together, and this I find terribly exciting. So does Max. We often sit on the side and watch them.

The way Allan and Richard like best for making love, is for them to face one another and put their penises between each other's thighs and thrusting. They say that their penises rub against one another as well as against their thighs, and that's what really excites them.

While they are doing this, they deep kiss one another really passionately. This turns me on, too. Sometimes they sit on the edge of the pool deep-kissing and stroking one another's penises, and I have sometimes reached orgasm just watching them.

When they come off in the pool, you can see their semen shooting through the water like little puffs of smoke. If Max just touches my nipples when we are watching this, I come off at once. I recommend any man who wants to improve his sexual performance to go and have a look at some great information on how to last longer in bed so that he can really pleasure his partner during sex.

Recently Max and I have decided we mustn't make love in the pool as often as we have been doing: he has experienced an episode of delayed ejaculation - we found out about making it easy for him to ejaculate during sex here - and we've begun to find that we are not having such intense orgasms when we make love in the house as we used to, and we think it's because it is always so exciting in the pool that we are coming to rely on it too much."

Read some great advice here for men.

 


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